Thursday, February 17, 2011

Thailand: from the beginning. Bit by bit.

The Basics:
First Country:  Thailand
Cities Visited:  Bangkok & Chiang Mai
Family Members:  Mom, Dad, Sister, Aunt, First Cousin, Great Aunt, Great Uncle & 3rd Cousin.  That makes a total of nine family members (including me).
Time:  5 days

The Highlights:
1. The Chatrium Hotel
2. Eating at our lovely five star hotel, The Chatrium
3. Enjoying the peace, cleanliness, warmth & comfort of our clean, peaceful, warm & comfortable accommodations
4. Starbucks
5. Free wireless internet. Access to paid internet.
6. The Thai names of the hotel employees, such as:  Thampon, Pornsak

Okay, on a more serious note, the fun festivities included:

1. Lost in Bangkok with sister and great uncle (Bangkok)
2. Foot massages (Bangkok & Chiang Mai)
3. Morning call to prayer (Bangkok)
4. Shopping at the night markets (Chiang Mai)
5. All day, outdoor, Thai cooking class located by calm, clean, peaceful rice fields with water buffalo (Chiang Mai)
6. Riding in the Tuk Tuks (Bangkok)
7. Lunch by a lovely waterfall (Chiang Mai)
8. Appreciation for the Thai language - 44 alphabets, 26 vowels & 5 tones...kaa

The not so fun festivities:

1.  Elephant Camp
2. Tiger paradise - the tiger peed on my dad
3. Traffic & honking (however, looking back, this was nothing compared to Pakistan)
4. Saying good-bye to two family members & continuing on without them...

Ah, where to begin.  How about the plane? Well this is where the physical journey begins.

I can't tell you how many times this past month I have heard the redundant safety announcement play in my ears like an annoying fly that just won't go away.  Yes, we will put on our seatbelt, stay seated when there's turbulence, use the life jackets stored under the seats, and as for the breathing mask, we will definitely help ourselves, before assisting our friendly neighbour, don't worry. Oh, lest not forget the bonus at the end of the announcement on Thai Airways - they have this little jingle play while two beautiful Thai employees/actors, wearing perfectly pressed purple suits, smile at you from the overhead TV screen.  And the jingle goes something like this, "da da daaaa, a touch of thaiii-laaand", the pitch starts loud and high and then softens towards the end.  And then sudden silence, as though a classical concert just ended and we are to rise and clap for the amazing harmony. Not a chance, the busy buzz of the plane quickly fills the void and we're off...

This sweet song is passing through my mind as I recall our days in Thailand. So what highlight from above is worthy of elaboration...I must say it was the day of getting lost in Bangkok! The day it was three.  Me, my sister and our great uncle.  What a pairing for such a surprisingly, unforgettable day! It started off with the entire family at the mall...and here at the mall, I ingested the most delicious, fresh, mango juice I have ever had in my life.  After that, no juice could compare and through the whole trip I searched for this authentic flavor, but never did anything match that one and only time. "The first breath [...] is the freest." - a quote I read, it has nothing to do with mango juice, but it seemed fitting.  Anyways, after the nine enjoyed the juice, 6 retired for the day and returned to our lovely, comfortable, peaceful, five star hotel, and the three of us, continued on...

Our first stop, foot massages.  An hour foot massage for $150 baht...$5 USD, not bad at all!  We giggled and snapped pics all the way through it.  I wasn't even bothered by the creepy man massaging my great uncle.  Every time I opened my eyes from the heavenly bliss of a relaxing massage, he was peeping and smiling, eek.  We think he thought something other than what was the case.  And the case was two grand nieces enjoying an outing with their grand uncle!  Well, you never know, this is the land of the lady boys.

After our massage, we had every intention of returning straight home. We wanted to be a little adventurous and rather than taking a taxi back to our hotel, as we had always done, we decided to take a Tuk Tuk!  Our lack of speaking Thai, and the drivers inability to understand English, turned into one hell of a ride.  We went in circles, physically and verbally.  Our driver gave up on locating our hotel and dropped us off in the middle of no where.  The three of us were so giddy from being on this adventure that being lost was hilarious and so fun!

The day developed into asking for directions, over and over again, shopping for silk shirts, taxi ride times two, boat ride times two..and eventually 5 hours, one silk shirt, and hundreds of pictures later, we arrived back at our hotel.  Not one of us could stop talking about the calamity we found ourselves in!

Travelling seems to be enhanced by the moments you create while in one place or the other and whom you create them with.  Or, it's just the right place, at the right time, with a little bit of luck that creates a surprisingly wonderful time.

"The best times may be measured not by where one wanders, but by the friendships and the relationships that one forges once there.  The landscapes then act as mere vehicles for delightful moments."

Remembering Thailand, begins to remove Pakistan.  That's a good thing.

Monday, February 14, 2011

Bad Case of Jet Lag

Seven days since I've been home and my Canadian rhythm is no where to be seen.  So as I sit here at 1:10 am, wide awake (on Valentines day, I might add), it's a good moment to spew out some of the thoughts that have been gathering in my mind since I've returned from my whirlwind trip to South(east) Asia.

It was a trip like no other.  And I haven't yet digested all that I have seen. Since I've returned, I've been asked, "How was it?" I try to describe the "how" of three countries in a nice little bow of an answer, but it hasn't been quite right. The answer appears in some pieced together, sentence, sounding something like, "yeah, it was good, and bad.  I'm happy to be home, so, how are you?" Perhaps a diversion to give me a little more time to assess my feelings and endless thoughts that keep floating through my mind.

I feel that I have returned with an emptiness and I am struggling to get it back.  Somehow, in a months time, my reserve of inspiration, positivity and goodness has been depleted and I am running on empty. I read once that we need to continue to absorb new things to jolt our creativity and so it is important to take yourself on dates, it can be to an art gallery, a walk in a park, a new movie...anything that may give you new ideas.  This leads me to the cliche saying that we have all heard, "you are what you see [or do, or read, etc...].  I have observed so much destruction and ugliness this past month, that I feel this is what is pouring from me these past seven days.  Don't panic, it's not that obvious.  But I feel it.  So friends, please send me your inspirational TED talks, Twitter quotes, and remind me to look at my vision board.  Too dramatic? Okay, it could just be a bad case of jet lag.

As Pakistan was our last stop, this country is what lingers in my mind the most.  In an attempt to spit out the harshness of the City of Karachi that lingers in my being, below is my personal vent session to expel the negativity.

1. Unless you have nerves of steel, don't get in a car, ever.
2. If you do get in a car, take ear plugs, to drown out the relentless honking.
3. Be prepared for the beggars, the professional beggars, the transvestite beggars, and their nasty finger nails dragging along your passenger side car window.
4. If you don't want to be stared at, constantly, dress local.
5. If you have a weak stomach, don't go to the open air, fish market, or just take a mask.
6. Visit the sea, ride a camel there, this will allow you to feel free, for just a moment.
7. Don't expect to go out alone, for a walk, for a coffee, for...anything. It's not safe.
8. Take lots of Pepto Bismol.
9. Have access to lots of bottled water.
10. Perhaps just wear a mask all the time to protect you from the dust, everywhere.

Minor exaggeration above, so I have created a list below of what I am thankful for, in Canada.

1. Freedom
2. Silence while driving.
3. While driving, I don't have, cars, bikes, motorcycles or cows, coming at me.
4. Scary men don't stare.
5. Independence.
6. Coffee shops.
7. Waking up before noon.
8. Eating dinner before 10 pm.
9.  Being productive.

Well, that was somewhat therapeutic.

Good night.